CHARACTER IS EVERYTHING!!!!!

Character....what is it?

By the Oxford Dictionary definition the noun character is defined as the mental and moral qualities distinctive to a person. Character is used to define personality.

Now we all claim to be good judges of character but lately I'm finding that as women we compromise on character just so we get what we want especially when it comes to men. Usually that's just attention and affection....having a man next to you. 

Seriously, ladies think about it, we tend to bend over backwards and give the men who are just but passerby's....meant to be but a fleeting moment in our lives....waaay too much room to manipulate and use us....be it emotionally or otherwise...to their fill as we compromise our ourselves for their poor character.

Well let me lay it down for you ladies...It's about time you stop falling for potential.

Fall only for what already exists.

How he treats you, how he talks to you, how he presents himself for inspection, how he supports and encourages your dreams and ambitions....that's the real deal.

And you my doll are the one who determines how it all goes down.

Don't give too much attention to his so called POTENTIAL.

Ohh you say.... he has potential to change, potential to treat you well, potential take you out on a date, potential to grow with you...soon as he gets time, money or whatever other excuse he gives you or worse you make for him.

And all the while you keep waiting while you are treated like crap...

That my friend is the lie we tell ourselves so that we keep a man around.

Time and again all my male friends tell me....If a man likes you and wants you he will do everything...no questions asked to have you.

WHATS THERE NOT TO LIKE??

His character will be driven.

So ladies, stop hanging on for forever waiting on someone's potential to have character. If they don't have the character that you can live with from the beginning...they never will.

Potential simply isn't enough...

Character Is Everything!!!

Love-Live-Life

Kalekye.